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iâm in that part of my life when people around me suddenly start to get married, birth babies like crazy or sign up for mortgage with the most repulsive guys i have ever met. recently i decided that i wonât hide my ire with such things anymore. iâve always been asexual and antinatalist, but my irritation with our sex-obsessed culture seemed a little bit rude to me sometimes, especially when it came to my friends talking about their future families or discussing their random tinder hook ups or some other shit like that. like⦠it had nothing to do with me, the only thing i had to do in conversations like that was saying âyeah?â every other minute & pretending to listen⦠why would i be annoyed by theme we are âtalkingâ about? but i donât think i will be able to proceed to hide my true views even in circle of normie acquaintances. iâm also a radfem separatist, iâve never dated a moid and always befriended women. my relationships with marriage and heterosexuality have always been difficult, i avoided all the stuff that could be connected to this even when i was a child. so the feeling that society doesnât understand me is a known thing to me. iâm repulsed by conversations about pregnancy and motherhood, i hate sex & relationship talks. and itâs just words, but they bring so much boredom mixed with grumpiness to me. and can you imagine what happens if somebody invites me to childbirth-related party? fucking shoot me. another thing is that i donât know how to act around children. i donât like them, they usually donât like me so we are even, but adults gain some weird social satisfaction when somebody compliments their children (how do you even do that?) so having friends with children is just tiring. there are also moments when a woman reveals her pregnancy and everybody starts to congratulate her and iâm standing there absolutely confused. what am i supposed to say? i feel absolutely numb about revelations like this, not because i donât love my friends, but bc iâm not able to comprehend whatâs so great about growing a parasite inside your body. it will probably ruin her physically and physiologically, and guy she is married to⦠well⦠sigh i canât even distract myself by devouring media. thereâs always something about relationships, giving birth or just plain misogyny everywhere. there are so many things to talk about, a whole world to explore, but people choose to mate like animals on noahâs arc, making their lives harder by having children and settling down in the most unsatisfying places they are able to find. and if they spend a few months or god forbid more being single, they will whine about it everywhere they can. honestly? i start to feel like an alien on this earth. i donât understand all of this. i donât want to understand all of this.
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nobody is entitled to a relationship sweaty
what it has to do with my point? iâm just saying that iâm not able to comprehend overall obsession with relationships & attempts to draw me into conversations about something i dislike make me annoyed. youâre grasping at straws
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