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This one if for all the gymnasts out there. Very easy for the man, since he just lays there, but this is a true feat of flexibility and strength on the woman’s part. The Golden Gate sex position is a type of 69 position so that both partners to perform oral sex on each other at the same time.
In this oral sex positions, the man lies on his back with legs slightly bent at the knees and spreads them apart. The woman stands over the head of her partner with her back to his body, arches her back and bends backwards until her hands are touching the floor or bed, taking the position of a bridge with her head between the man’s legs. Her head will now be between the man’s legs. Using her hands for support on the floor, or bed, she bends her head back and is able to perform oral sex on her man.
The golden gate oral sex position is an incredibly challenging position to maintain for any extended period of time. Many couples report that it is not a very pleasurable experience, so it is more of a novelty sex position than anything else. You’ll find plenty of other satisfying oral sex positions in our sex positions guides .
In the Golden Gate oral sex position, the man lies down and the woman bends backwards into a bridge position over him.
This is a very easy sex position to do for the man, since he just needs to lay there. This position is very difficult to do for the woman and is not recommended for anyone who is not flexible and has good upper body strength.
No, not really. While it’s easy for the man to perform cunnilingus on the woman who is bending over backwards, she’ll be too focused on holding the “bridge” position to really gain any pleasure from oral sex. Many couples report that it’s more of a novelty sex position than anything else.
No, definitely not. For the partner laying on their back, they have easy access to their partners anus, which is great. But there is no way for the partner who is bending over backwards to perform oral sex on the lying partner’s anus. And frankly, while the partner laying down can easily perform analingus, the other partner will be to preoccupied trying to hold the “bridge” position that they probably won’t find much pleasure in it.
There really aren’t many benefits to this position other than it makes for great photos and it’s a great story to tell to your fellow swinger friends ! Odds are, if you’re trying this position, you’re either a porn-star or very experienced in the art of oral sex.
Some variations of the Golden Gate oral sex position include:
Due to the challenging nature of this position, we don’t recommend using sex toys with this position.
If you’re looking for a truly unique and challenging oral sex position, the Golden Gate is definitely for you. However, be warned that it’s not for the faint of heart or those without serious upper body strength.
If you’re up for the challenge, though, this oral sex position is a fun one to try out and add to your repertoire of shit I’ve done that I don’t really need to do again!
Be sure to check out our other oral sex guides if you’re back needs a break!